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Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Are Holidays for families or shopping?


Enough of black Friday a plea for sanity and light

On behalf of retail employees everywhere I am making a passionate plea to all of you of sound mind and believers in fair trade. Please, please, do not start your holiday shopping late Thanksgiving eve or in the wee hours of Friday morning. The same goes for stores open on Christmas. Most of you (I hope) do not have plans to stay up late, get in lines or hang out in parking lots between the hours of six p.m. and what ever. Be careful, you may find tempters among your family and friends. Lulled into a post holiday eating stupor, unintentionally, you could be enticed into a late night shopping event.

How might retail temptation show up in your life? Try this simple scenario on for size. You’ve finished eating and someone mentions that it might be fun to check out the madness, join in with the crowds, be adventurous and find out what drives someone to shop at three a.m.  Mumbling takes place, the words “no” and  ”no way” can be heard, but not at a decibel level that registers with human ears.  Suddenly coats are donned and people are heading to a shopping location.

This is just an example of how one can be tempted into saying “yes”, when you meant to say “no”. During dinner or post dinner the talk turns to holiday presents.  The usual moaning commences on the status of shopping chores.  Either no one has completed are even started shopping for presents.  A joke is made, “we could always finish dinner and head for the stores”. There it is; companionship, a good meal, perhaps some spirits and you are standing in the cold, waiting for a store to open. How could it happen to you?

Think of all the families that are being separated on both Thanksgiving and Christmas. For what, so a total of twelve 101.5-inch mega screen TV’s, offered as door busters can drive customers into the stores  to find something else.  Or finding that not so special present for someone, that will be re-gifted, so the task can be crossed off a list?

If the stores were not open at unconscionable hours the same deals would be offered over the weekend.  Employees are threatened with the loss of their jobs if they ask to have the time off.   This whole black Friday, starting on Halloween, craziness has to stop.  Corporate retailers blame it on the recession.  One more excuse for bad business practices, not changing with the times and a loss of compassion for employees.

Support retailers that respect their employees and respect you, the consumer, by wanting you to be at home on Thanksgiving and Christmas, "just says no!”  

For those of you that don't want to be at home but need to escape the family, go outside, visit friends. We can all find something else other than a visit to a mall on a day of gratitude. 

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