Pet Sympathy

I promise to lighten up next week but this topic came up recently and it is important.  What do you do when a pet of a relative or good friend dies, especially when the animal was a beloved member of the family?

Our pets have a mighty impact on so many of us; they are our best friends, faithful companions, confidantes, and health aids.  For those that live alone, young or old, their pet is their family.

The death of a pet brings about a myriad of emotions.  In a family with children the loss of a pet can be the first time death is encountered.  For others it is a loss that seems insurmountable.  Grief counselors tell us losing a favorite animal brings up emotions of the past  - deaths of family and friends that have not been processed.  The grief of the lost pet mixed with the grief of a past human loss can complicate bereavement.

Acknowledge the loss with a note.  I hear the words – “it is just an animal.”  The animal is the best friend of someone you care about. Your kind words can be placed on a blank note or a card that has an image of nature.

A few sentences will be appreciated.

1.    I am so sorry to hear that you lost Skippy. 

2.    He was a part of the (neighborhood /family) and brought everyone so much joy.

3.    I will miss his wagging tail.

4.    Skippy was fortunate to be in your home where he had never-ending love and care.

5.    (Your choice….I have made a donation in his name to the animal shelter)

6.    Sincerely,

Pet sympathy may seem odd, especially if you are not keen on animals, but for many, pets are man’s best friends.  Let the person know you are sorry for their loss. 

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